Let’s not beat about the bush – flirting is a fun and natural part of social interaction, and everyone does it. Flirting doesn’t stop just because you are in a relationship, and as long as it’s harmless, there shouldn’t be an issue.
However, for all of you in a relationship – how do you know when flirting has gone too far? It’s usually when your boyfriend/girlfriend is staring evils so sharp they could give James Bond’s laser beams a run for their money. Check out the signs for when flirting goes too far and how you can resolve the, ahem, awkwardness.
1.Constant distractions.
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Innocent Flirting can make a long day at work less tedious, but if you spend more time flirting and thinking about flirting, it may well have gone a tad too far.
2.You delete emails and lie.
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When you start lying about your conversations, or deleting emails and texts, you definitely have a problem. If it’s all innocent, then there is no need to hide. At this stage you might need to rethink the whole flirting lark, and back off.
3.Others notice.
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Comments such as, ‘Wow, does Katie know you have a GF?’ is basically code for, ‘What are you doing?’ Should people start to notice your closeness, there just might be cause for concern.
4.It gets physical.
![Too Much Touchy-Feely? (Image: Wise Geek)](https://i0.wp.com/www.frukmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/man-touching-womans-knee.jpg?resize=742%2C537)
Sure, some people are naturally touchy-feely. Yet, if the flirting banter has now progressed to this stage, and one or both of you are in a relationship – its time to re-evaluate.
5.Extra time.
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Have you begun taking your lunches together, down to the park? Are you engaging in after work drinks that seem to last longer and longer? If you are already in a relationship, this is about to get very ugly!
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