Ever wanted to know if a guy really likes you after a first date or is he just stringing you along? Well wonder no more! Unfortunately it is not as simple as after the first date they say, “I like you” Or “Lets meet up again?”. At the end of the day these are just words, statements as such which you cannot really tell if they mean anything. Words are words and actions are action, ever heard of the phrase, Actions Speak Louder? At the same time you might be thinking, I don’t want to look too eager/desperate”. Despite the attempts of trying to look calm and collected there are a number of ways to tell if a guy is really into you.
1.Finishing The date Effectively- If a man does not have so much interest in you, he would not devote much time for you. – He would do the absolute minimum on a date and cut things short. Whereas, if a guy is into you, he would dedicate all of his time for you and spend as much time with you as he possibly can.
2.One on One- If he is into you he would want to share with you. He would feel comfortable around you. For example; if he is having a party with his friends he would invite you because he would want more of an interesting outlet. He would want to introduce you with his friends.
- Extending The Date- If the date is going well, one of the common signs is that after Dinner, he would suggest going for a walk, or grabbing some Ice-Cream or coffee.
4. Consistency- If he didn’t like her, heywould head straight home and begin the process of fading out of the girl’s life (following up is not part of that process). Instead, he would consistently call and ask to meet up for another date.
- He talks about future plans with you- He says things like “We could really have fun white-water rafting together,” or “I go to a great music festival every summer, maybe we can go together?” This shows you that he is thinking about the possibility of spending more time with you.
His eyes are smiling- It is said that smiling reduces stress and when the muscles around his eyes engage, you can secretly see the smile in his eyes. A real smile is not only when the corners of his mouth turn up.
The Teasing Game- As the date progresses, does your date start asking you personal questions or do they pull your leg and tease you often? No one makes the effort to tease their date playfully on a first date unless they’re trying to win them over with humour.
8. The last goodbye- Does your date look back at you more than once while walking away or driving away? If they do, they probably don’t even want to say goodbye to you just yet. If your date glances back at you and smiles blushes sheepishly as they move away, they’re smitten by you, more with each passing goodbye glance.
That was to give you an insight of how men are if they are into a woman after their first date.